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Ozark Guidance – Torture is a Form of Trauma, Trauma Causes PTSD

Grief, interrupted: PTSD in the time of Tsunami and war

“The crayon on the wood took the abuse out of the present and put it into the past, properly, physically. The crayon marks told Sybil she no longer had to convince anyone of anything. It told her the therapist knew, and believed her and it validated her anger and pain.”

from The Internet Connects Trauma Survivors

The images, taken while patients remember a traumatic event, show how areas of the right hemisphere of the brain – those associated with emotional states and autonomic arousal – are lit up. The ‘imprint of trauma’ he says, ‘is located mainly in the limbic system, the part that interprets what is safe or dangerous in the world and in the brain stem that modulates arousal levels – sleeping, breathing, urinating and chemical balances. At the same time, parts of the frontal lobe that deal with the capacity to plan, to rationalise, to inhibit inappropriate behaviour – and specifically one area associated with speech – are shown to be shut down.’

What this suggests, says van der Kolk, is that ‘when people relive their traumatic experiences, the frontal lobes become impaired and as a result they have trouble thinking and speaking. They are no longer capable of communicating to others precisely what’s going on.’ Nor, he argues, are they capable of imagining how things could change. This ability is located in the prefrontal cortex of the brain, an area that needs to be engaged if someone is to have the possibility of transforming their experience and moving on.

Meanwhile, he says, research also shows the way in which the possibility to physically move at the time of the trauma is a key factor in a person’s experience. Movement, he points out, is organised in the limbic system where a part of the brain known as the amygdala acts as a ’smoke detector’, sending out alarm signals when a person is in a sensory situation similar to the trauma. The more immobile a person felt at the time of the experience when the original alarm was going off, the more sensitive this detector is likely to be in the future – and the more they are at risk of trauma.

The nature of this person’s ‘fight or flight’ response is also affected. For example, children – often less likely to be in a position to physically flee a traumatic environment – may well resort to freezing, numbing or dissociating as their only options for ‘leaving’.

from The Future of Trauma Work, British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy Journal

Debunking Myths About Trauma and Memory

Why Go to Therapy?

Stressresponses arise when exposures to adverse life experiences outstrip protective psychosocial resources, leading to a failure of coping and adaptation – Lazarus RS. Stress and Emotion: A New Synthesis, 1st ed. London: Free Association Books; 1999

from Psychosomatic Medicine – Socioeconomic Status Differences in Coping With a Stressful Medical Procedure

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If your self-doubts and fears stop you from getting things done, here are some techniques and processes that can help you break through them.

  1. Make a list of your fears. Only by admitting that they exist can you seek solutions.
  2. Write down how these fears affect your life.
  3. Become aware of the voices in your head and write down those negative messages.
  4. Start building a support system of friends and eliminate people from your life who foster feelings of negativity.
  5. Join a support group of people who have similar issues.
  6. Change each negative message to one that is affirming and constructive.
  7. Read books that help you feel better about yourself.
  8. Be aware of your past, and be willing to let go of it.
  9. List your goals and the actions you need to achieve them.
  10. Take one of those actions every day. Each time you do something that brings you closer to achieving your goals you will feel better about yourself.

From “Break Through Self-Doubt and Fear” by Simmer Lieberman

by Michelle Hancock

Not a day goes by that the word “cancer” doesn’t scare thousands of Canadians. Like a dreaded scourge, it hovers over us, presumably just waiting to claim its next victim.

But according to scientists in the growing field of mind/body medicine, the disease is not as much an external force as you might believe. Fear and anxiety–our thoughts and feelings–can impact our health just as much as a long list of cancer risk factors. “Psychoneuroimmunology”’ is the scientific term to describe the study of the mind/body connection. Carl Simonton, MD, is an oncologist who pioneered research in this discipline as early as the 1970s. His book, Getting Well Again (Bantam, 1978), shows how “an individual’s reaction to stress and other emotional factors can contribute to the onset and progress of cancer [while] positive expectations, self-awareness and self-care can ontribute to survival.”

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  • Reporting day
    • accountable/responsible for problems I have already tried to avoid
    • when people say “best isn’t good enough” I don’t have an answer
      • defeated – think nothing I say will make any difference
    • not raising problems, or not challenging when problems are dismissed
    • trying to fix them all myself
    • accepting being fobbed off
    • not getting “client” buy-in to difficult messages
    • doubting own abilities
      • means excess time for me
      • not escalating because I’m worried it’ll reflect on me

There seems to be lots of doubt going on here. Could use more balance; helpful to look at what I could have done differently but also needs to be balanced with what others could also have done differently. Might be useful to read “The Now Habit” again.

Even With More Free Time, Women Feel No Less Rushed, Study Finds

“Women worked more hours in paid employment in 1998 than they did in 1975,” Sayer said. “The amount of time they spend in household labor declined during that period, but not enough to offset the increase in paid work hours.”

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Alternative Therapies – Meditation, with Dr Kathy Sykes

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